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The Narcissist Wants to Shame You— Chapter 2
When Past Pain Turns Into Present Punishment
While my spiritual journey has put me through enough pits and falls, the biggest mistake I made in my life was “coming across” a narcissist. Yes, you heard that correctly. “Coming across.” It means that I do not have ANY relationship with the narcissist. I met this person just twice in my life (refer to Chapter 1). Little did I know that these two times were enough for him to cause chaos in my life for many years to come.
This man, who, by the way, heads a branding company in India, had a falling out with his girlfriend of eight years. Since then, he has been unable to move on. He may have gone through the pain, but he doesn’t understand that he hasn’t healed yet. Deep within him, he wants revenge.
He can’t take revenge on his ex-girlfriend’s husband because he is richer than him. And in his dictionary, money defines whether he can take revenge or not. This has built up many years of frustration deep inside of him, and he would do anything to TEACH A GIRL A LESSON. The built-up frustration within his heart now comes out as punishing other people for little things.
In the two meetings we had, he told me how he punished a father and his son for a comparatively smaller mistake, by calling the police and the media and then slapping them in front of…
